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Friday, July 1

Power Word of the Day: Relentless

 RELENTLESS (adj.): persistent; never-ceasing

If you want to have anything in this experience called "life" you must be RELENTLESS about it. It's just that simple.

It is my belief that there will be a time in which most goals that you seek to accomplish will require little effort to achieve. It will appear as though life is feeding you with a silver spoon and the stars have aligned in your favor. I can remember the times in my life when such was the case. In fact, until I reached my thirties, I had achieved (with success) every single goal that I had set out to accomplish with little effort.  What do I mean by “little effort”?  Well, I created a bare bones plan in most cases and followed the plan. In most every case, the result was success.

Then, I was introduced to the new me in my thirties and God began to further develop my character. He began to show me that there would be goals and tasks that would require persistence, sincere faith and deep focus to achieve. I began to notice a pattern of God revealing tasks to me that seemed to be near impossible in the midst of limited resources or no clear plan. I later realized that I did not need to know the plan if He knew it, but that’s another blog entry. Moreover, I learned that there are times in which God wants to see just how serious we are going to be about the tasks that he has set before us. I learned (and am still learning) how to be RELENTLESS in regard to any task that He places before me.

In my opinion, a life without purpose is a life that will never reach its full potential. Emptiness, disconnection and a feeling of “there’s just something more” will always exist in the life of a person who has not found their purpose. That said, when we look at our power word for today, it is important that one become RELENTLESS about finding purpose first. If one can become relentless about finding their purpose, they will have little difficulty applying that relentless nature to other areas of their life.

So, just what does it mean to be RELENTLESS? For me, it means being fiercely determined and indubitably focused on my destiny. It is first, accepting what God has revealed to me; second, saying yes to the assignment; and third, knowing that God would not have given the task to me if he did not feel that I was well-equipped. Being relentless means staring into the face of naysayers with a smile and the consideration that they will often not understand the task that has been given to me. It will and should only make sense to those to which it needs to make sense. It is about being willing to lose friends, jobs, family members, whatever it takes to reach my full potential. Even more importantly, it is about being honest with myself and reminding myself that it is often ME that stands in my own way, not others. Further, it is about checking myself and getting into alignment with the BIG PICTURE and understanding that it is not just about me, but there are others connected to the fulfillment of my purpose.

So as we journey into our long weekend I ask….What do you need to become relentless about today?



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Monday, April 11

Winning







Monday Morning Musing #6
Somehow, this concept of "winning" has been grossly misrepresented by our dear friend Charlie Sheen. In recent interviews with various reporters, Mr. Sheen has concisely laid out his concept of "winning". According to him, "winning" is: having tons of beautiful women at your disposal, nice cars and lavish houses, embracing a life where you do exactly what you want with no regard for others and most importantly, pursuing this lifestyle with "violent hatred". He admits that his decision to respond in this matter derives from feeling misused and kicked around.

This comes as no surprise, as most people who are as reckless as he has become are often doing so as a defensive mechanism. 
In my opinion, Mr. Sheen is not winning. As his ratings raise and his popularity soars, it may appear that he is but  be not deceived.

True Winning
Initially, I planned to title this last Monday Morning Musing "The Power of Failing". After further consideration, I decided that "Winning" was a much better title. My intention is to share my personal formula for winning in contrast to Mr. Sheen.

For me, winning is getting up everyday and pursuing the purpose that has been set before me with extreme vigor, tenacity and tunnel-vision focus. The level of focus that I am referring to requires great sacrifice. It often means laughing a nay-sayers, missing out on events that you would like to attend, losing sleep and even losing some friends in the process. In order to truly win, one has to be CRYSTAL clear about their purpose and calling in this life. This vision then becomes that foundation for everything that you do.

More importantly, for me, winning is realizing that in the life of a believer there is no such thing as failure. Every life experience, failure and success alike, provides valuable lessons from which we can learn life-changing principles.  "Winning" is not about the amount of material treasures one can store up. However, it is about the everyday actions and impacts that create the total sum of a legacy that speaks to future generations. It's about having the relentless passion to pursue a purpose or dream with everything within you. Even Mr. Sheen seems to understand this concept, as he has pursued money and revenge with "violent hatred" (his words not mine). So, what's stopping you?


Are you winning? This week, spend a little time thinking about how you are "winning" or what changes you need to make to "win" in this life. We'd love to hear your thoughts! Share them with us by commenting below or Twitter (@lLoveLifeMusings). 

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Sunday, April 10

Fashionably Late Spring Cleaning

Available from my closet :-)
Well my friends, I'm doing a little Spring fashion cleaning. What better place to start than my closet? It may come as a surprise, but fashion has always been my second love (Psychology/Counseling is my first). It is my belief that fashion and style is about more than just fabric and garb. In my opinion, fashion is  an outward expression of the inner most parts of a person's soul. It is possible to learn much about a person from what they are wearing. I know, I know...we've all been told to, "Never judge a book by it's cover." But if we're being honest with ourselves (and we should be) we all do it.


Let's face it. Fashion is big business! It's the very reason NY, London, Milan and Paris Fashion Weeks are among the most coveted tickets of the Fall and Spring seasons. However, my thoughts around fashion are not about "haves" or "have nots". For me, it is simply an opportunity to allow my creative juices to flow in a way that brings me great joy. I am not a label-crazed shopper. I will wear anything from thrift to couture...as long as it is effortlessly fabulous and fits my personality (and compliments my body type).


So, I'm getting rid of a few items that have (or never had the opportunity to) serve me well. You can find the fruits of my closet cleaning labors here! At this point, every closet in my home is filled, mostly with clothing that I can no longer wear, as I am now 5 dress sizes smaller. So as I strive to reduce my excess, I welcome you to take a stroll through my closet


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Wednesday, April 6

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